Long before
The Inn at Beacon on Main Street was conceived; years before the Roundhouse
opened its boutique accommodations on Fishkill Creek, and even before The Swann
Inn opened its doors, the Botsford Briar Bed and Breakfast (BBB&B) was
established as the pioneer B&B service in Beacon in 1994. Happy 20th
Anniversary!
Located on
High Street, its purple turrets and iconic Victorian angles are visible from
either Route 9D or as one treks uphill from the Beacon train station. Replete
with 92 windows and charming stylized one-of-a-kind guest rooms, the Botsford
Briar beckons to short-stay visitors, as well as long-term guests, who want to
explore Beacon’s charms.
So BBB&B
was the natural recommendation I made to a friend who reads my blog and decided
to come for the solstice weekend to have a birthday getaway weekend not very
far from upper Westchester in order to explore the shops and galleries on Main
Street that she’s been reading about for several years.
My friend
stayed for two nights and had several conversations with Shirley Botsford,
co-owner and inn-keeper at BBB&B along with Charles Fincham, and learned
that the B&B is in the throes of becoming a school for literary and visual
arts (Botsford Briar Arts School) with offerings in writing mysteries, learning
to sew/quilt/knit, meditation and new topics on the horizon. Shirley, author of
Daddy’s Ties, and a local fine crafts artist who participates in gallery
showings, has been a dedicated to hospitality and parlor pleasantries since she
first hosted meetings in her home when Dia Beacon was first being proposed!
My friend
shared some of her highlights of her weekend adventure in Beacon and noted the
lovely meal at the Roundhouse after sitting in the lounge “between the
fireplace and the falls”; the wanderings into Clay, Wood and Cotton, Hudson
Beach Glass, Riverwinds, Beacon Barkery, Gwenno James, Vintage Beacon, After the Barn and other
venues along the way. She lunched at the Yankee Clipper because she “likes
diners”, had coffee at Beacon Bagels and took note of the other restaurants and
boutiques. She liked the pop-ups and the craftiness and appeal of the bicycle
menorah and Christmas tree at the Visitors Center.
I was
concerned that she may have been disappointed about her visit to my town, and
that she would not continue reading my blog, but she assured me that the
weekend was a lovely gift to herself and that she was pleased with the sights
and sounds reminiscent of Beacon Bits.
Food for
thought: There are many times we may not
have an inkling of how our words and actions influence others. In friendship
and in relationships with significant others, the ability to influence or
persuade one another are an important attribute for a successful partnership.
Influence and persuasion require trust. Trust builds rapport. And rapport opens
us up into possibilities of learning and growing together. My insider’s view of
Beacon allowed my friend to express curiosity and to take a risk. Her
outsider’s view made me think about how Beaconites need to continue to grow
skills in hospitality for those living outside (as well as inside) the
community. We both gained a new perspective. And we both gained the gift of
renewed and deepening friendship this holiday season.
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